How to know he is the one for you #31DaysBloggingChallenge

Tbh, the first thing I look at guys is their personality. I love to take personality quiz for fun and sometimes this question come out. If personality is not in the options, I'll choose hair. As a lady who hasn't married yet, I focus on guy's personality above all. My married sister told me that once you get married, the first thing you look at 'your guy' is his mind. Hahaha. Husbands don't always pick up what's going on wives mind but wives often have great abilities to read husband's mind ☻

For me, personality defines everything. You know, as we look thoroughly at someone's personality, we can know whether he/she is the right one isn't it? If his personality suits me and make me feel comfortable to be around him, I would say yes. Okayla, this one memang cliche but I couldn't deny. I can never say yes to someone who has different personality with me like totally different and that person refuses to change it or even get rid of it. I'm not trying to be selfish but if I still got chance to find a better one that match my personalities very well, why should I keep that person kan! 

I need someone who can make me feel secure mentally and physically. I say yes to someone who sincerely shows me how honored he is to have me as his wife. Sincere. Sincerity. I need to feel his sincerity first before making decision. Marriage is not an easy things to decide y'all. I can never accept a guy who keeps on giving lame excuses and can't be trust. He who clearly shows me zero sincerity. Urgh no way. He is just trying to make a way to a girl's heart and then break it into pieces. How can he lead me to a better future in such a playful marriage?

If he disagree with you, what will he do? This! Before marriage and after marriage are two different situation for couples. Two different expressions and actions will also happen but you are the one who need to decide and consider which one will overcome everything and still able to make both of you become deeply in love again and again. 

If he is the right one, not just me but my family should approve him as Mr.Right. I can't judge him by myself. My family, friends, people around me must always keep on remind me or tell me whether he is the best one or the bad one. Sometimes we can't fully depend on ourselves to find the correct person. Judgement by others should be considered too.